Sunday, 9 August 2015
Thursday, 2 July 2015
Saturday, 7 March 2015
Tuesday, 28 October 2014
Kitna easy hai apni problems se bhaag jaana..forget everything,forget your family,forget those who actually care for you and taking this step of suicide, i would say rather "mudering yourself"..those who are left behind are there to suffer..thik hai yaar,problems hoti hain,and yeah those who take this step might be having a problem of a lifetime,but suicide is never a solution..Aashiqui movie me agar vo banda suicide na krke apne aap ko improve krne ki ek genuine try kr leta to movie ki ending shayad thik si hi hoti but in real life it would have been a great achievement for himself..
The biggest mistake people who are at this stage of depression make is that they don't discuss their problems with anyone..problem sharing leads to the one getting support..its then easier to recover from the trauma but thinking that sharing might make me feel weak or helpless is definitely a stupidity..Share it with your family..They will always support you..at the end they love you and will definitely understand whatever it might be..
We humans make our lives centric to something..and when we lose that thing,we lose hopes of something good happening in the future and we just don't find any reason to live..Never make your life so centric,so dependent..If one goal of your life has not been achieved,its a sign that it was not your true goal in the first place..Move on in life and find yourself..fighting back will make you a more stronger person and more closer to what you actually should be..
Giving up is really never an option..
One Life..only ONE..
Cheers to life..:)
Saturday, 6 September 2014
Monday, 13 January 2014
At one point in life,everybody thinks of his/her perfect partner..And for those who haven't found it yet,its a complete mystery..:P
But what if,theres a twist in the story..
What if,this problem of finding the one didn't exist..If God would have given just tags to couples,it would have been a lot more fun..
Then in matrimonials,advertisement by a guy of tag 6999 would have been somewhat like this:
In search of tag no. 6999 female..Kindly contact wherever you are..
No need of other details..Moreover it would have been the best for our country like India..Problems of caste and religion would have vanished..Any guy from any country could have been paired with anyone across the world..
"bhai bhagwan ne tags diye hain" so people would agree to that ultimate decision by God..
It would have literally proved the saying-"Jodiyan to upar se hi banti hain"
Apart from this,the typical breakups and patchups of couples would have ended..They know,ultimately they have to live with their God-selected partners..
Yeah,life would have been easier..But the taste of uncertainity in life would have been missing..The curiosity,the mystery,the dreams,the expectations and the happening of unexpected would have been missing..:)
Sunday, 15 December 2013
And here's how the story begins..He would woo you with his smart and instant replies decorated with smileys *wink*.. He will compliment you and at the same time the three other girls he's talking (actually chatting) to..No Offence guys...I agree ajkal ki ladkiyan bhi kam nahi...
Do you remember the rich guy with that black Mercedes..He proposed me and i said yes..Why would a girl leave a guy so rich..He is so cute..and he gifts me anything i want..He's adorable..
I mean C'mon..Do you even know this guy??..You are more interested in his money and his looks..
Gone are the days when finding the one you love was considered to having found a perfect soulmate..ab to time pass hi chalta hai..
Hawww...you don't have a girlfriend and you are 21!! What a shame..
C'mon u don't have a girlfriend because you are 21..You have her because you felt she is the one..
Love is not only about a few loving chats,liking each others dp with hearts,exchanging gifts,posting couple photos on Fb,boasting about your love in front of your friends...Yes,some of these are part of "love afterlife" but having someone in your life for just this sake is just ain't fair..Love is above all this..
Love is when you don't have to pretend what you are,you can be yourself and be accepted by your soulmate as you are..Love is sacrificing for that someone..Love is when you share your happiness,sorrow,your deepest secrets and there's always an urge to know more about that person..Love is when you want to see that someone happy even if its at the cost of your happiness..Love is when you respect and understand each other..you trust each other and know your flaws and still be together..
Infact,whatever way i try,but Love cannot be bound by definitions..Its the matter of hearts..So there must be something that "strikes" which makes you say a 'yes'..:)
C u soon with more Gyaan on love,breakups,Zindagi...
Wednesday, 17 July 2013
Sunday, 31 March 2013
Umang hai uske mann mein par aankhon mein hai nami;
Dekho re sakhiyon,vo to piya k ghr chli..
Is ghar mein hi badi hui,parhi likhi,har khwahish puri ki;
Mann me darr hai uske kahin choote na ye yaadon ki karhi;
Dekho re sakhiyon,vo to piya k ghr chli..
Maa kehti hai us se k tu meri hi parchhayi hai,
babul bhi bole dil se,tere sang hamari duayein hai;
Ye reet bdi dukhdayi hai, par har kisi ne ye nibhayi hai;
Lal rang me rangi hui ye dulhan ghbraati hai;
Kaisa hoga sasuraal yehi soch use khaa jati hai..
Kehti hai vo is dunia se;
kyu main hi chodun ghr apna,
kyu muje apnaye log nye,
kyu main hi bdlun sirname apna,kyu main hi tyaagun har sapna..
Friday, 15 March 2013
Sometimes you are supposed to choose between two options even though you dont want to..Hiding something from someone is probably a better option than to break someone else's trust........
Usne pucha ki kya hai jo tu chupa rhi h;
Teri aankhein kuch raaz bata rhi h;
Dil me hai bat par zuban par kuch or h;
Ye jhooti muskurahat tu kise dikha rhi h;
Vo smjti h har bat k us se kaise kahun;
Koi hai meri majburi jo muje dabaa rhi h;
Har panna uske saamne rkh dun zindagi ka;
Par kaise krun ye bat jo kisi or k gam ko samaa rhi h;
Kyu hun main is dorahe pe,kyu do hi raaste h mere pas;
Vishwas na tod dun kisi ka,zehan me bat bs yehi aa rhi h;
Maaf krna muje dil dukha dun kisi ka to;
Pr tute na vishwas,dua bs yehi aa rhi hai......................
Tuesday, 5 February 2013
Read at your own risk.....:-P coz. this might remind you of your bad days from the past...to all those who have experienced preparation period for medical n non-medical entrance exam tests..here we go.......
Teacher-Ok students,we are done with todays lecture..But (with a grin on his face) take your homework with you..Do chapter 8,9,10 of this book solved and unsolved questions both..After this you'll be left with some time so go for the alpha level (the higher one) and we will discuss it tomorrow..N guys you are in 12th so leave your habit of spoon feeding,if you have spare time then go for higher levels of each n every topic...
Me- (looking at the clock which was 8 in the evening already while the teacher was speaking...:-P) Will be reaching home soon and will be grabbing some food..m too hungry..we are sitting here from 1'o clock..from the last half an hour m evn not getting what he is trying to say..:-/ Only thing i can imagine now is a plate of noodles in my hand..:-D
This was my daily routine..after class i used to reach home,have dinner and take rest for some time n then study late night..then wake up late in the morning..n study before the tuition class..even then i was not able to complete my home assignment..n when the teacher used to discuss the topic i didnt have doubts..
Some students were so intelligent and smart that they used to complete the assignment n uske bad they had those high level doubts that i never understood..We used to call it O.H.T(over head transmission) :-P
Achaa our teachers used to motivate us so much k lgta tha aj ghar ja k saara kuch kr lena hai..will plan everything for the week but vo plan used to remain on paper only..3 days tk used to be so motivated but on the 4th day again the same..
Going to school was fun coz we used to play for sometime,attended lectures which were not so hectic as the one in coaching class used to be and we were not required to go to school daily..;-).Some students from my coaching centre never ever went to school..n some from my school went to 3 different coaching centres for 3 subjects..tough job i know..
The day i was to give my iit exam i was quite sure i wont be able to clear it..but there was a thought somewhere deep inside my heart that may be something magical would happen n i ll be able to clear it..but soon (after the exam) i realised magic only happens in fairy tales..
These two years are the ones we may never want to discuss..but somehow we learnt a lot..i learnt the value of time..hardwork..n tricks too..(although m too bad at it)..negative marking..(hated it) these years gave some special moments as well..feeling good when you get the right answer after so much dimag khapaai..group studying n usme b ghtia logics lgaana n laughing at the ideas..telling your friend that you didnt do the assignment and getting to know even she didnt do it..attending a sarhu teacher lecture,pretending that you are getting it but thinking of stabbing him with a knife..:-P
song for all those "warriors" who tried their fate by burning the midnight oil in this competitive world or will be going to try soon-
Saari umar hum mar mar ke jee liye ikk pal to ab hamein jeene do jeene do...Give me some sunshine..
*One doubt...jo humne parha in 2 years me,vo use kahan hota hai????????? ;-)
Saturday, 12 January 2013
one love to give,one chance to keep from falling ,
one heart to break,
one soul to take us,
not forsake us,ONLY ONE
cheers to life..:)
Tuesday, 8 January 2013
I'll be there for you,when the rain starts to pour,
i'll be there for you coz you there for me too..Rashmeet